tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post9170314688468477349..comments2023-06-16T08:57:33.194-04:00Comments on Our life with Kevin: Please don't think I'm horribleTamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11534837348861876830noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-61555206805079258262007-09-11T00:22:00.000-04:002007-09-11T00:22:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry for you. I know it must hurt.I'm so sorry for you. I know it must hurt.Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10819575319679084739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-86462401634039550042007-09-10T19:48:00.000-04:002007-09-10T19:48:00.000-04:00You did what you needed to do as Kevin's Mom. I kn...You did what you needed to do as Kevin's Mom. I know it's terrible-I am still afraid we have to give up our cats b/c K. might be allergic to them. You did what is best for Kevin, and that's the most important thing. I don't think anyone will think what you did was horrible!Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03789004679231213602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-88441590270081923702007-09-10T18:29:00.000-04:002007-09-10T18:29:00.000-04:00Oh, no, that is my biggest fear, too. I am sure th...Oh, no, that is my biggest fear, too. I am sure that I will have to do the same thing when my Avaree comes home. I am so sorry for you and just know that your heart is broken. I will be praying for you. You are a very good mom! Esther (FTC)Estherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07944915943871916514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-91602729284437759112007-09-10T12:04:00.000-04:002007-09-10T12:04:00.000-04:00Tam, I am so sorry about your dog. What a tough de...Tam, I am so sorry about your dog. What a tough decision to have to make, but really no choice at all when it comes to your precious baby...not that that makes it any easier. I hope you can focus on the happiness and good things with Kevin right now to help you as you heal over Carly. ((((((((Hugs)))))))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-81151240723014214702007-09-09T20:09:00.000-04:002007-09-09T20:09:00.000-04:00You did what had to be done. I know it was very d...You did what had to be done. I know it was very difficult for you, but you put your child's safety first. Being a mom is such a tough, tough job....Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05960435604612927279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-16563348108961638262007-09-09T14:01:00.000-04:002007-09-09T14:01:00.000-04:00Don't beat yourself up over this! I don't know if ...Don't beat yourself up over this! <BR/><BR/>I don't know if it's a coincidence, or if you picked up something I posted on my blog recently from my comments here, but your situation is different!<BR/><BR/>You clearly thought long and hard about your decision, and sought alternatives before making it. I'm sure you would have prefered finding a new home for Carly yourself, but you didn't have that choice. Hopefully, the SPCA will find her another home soon.<BR/><BR/>You had to do what's best for your son. He's not at an age where he can protect himself, so it's up to you to do so. You're a good mom!Baby John's Cribhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02232385839855806594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-35695428423532353702007-09-09T12:59:00.000-04:002007-09-09T12:59:00.000-04:00I found your blog when doing some research. We ar...I found your blog when doing some research. We are adopting from Guatemala, too and our sons are about 1 week difference in age. I would love to talk. My spot is http://www.1adoptionjourney.blogspot.com<BR/><BR/>Thanks,<BR/><BR/>BrandeeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-6765559805004330122007-09-09T00:35:00.000-04:002007-09-09T00:35:00.000-04:00Oh honey! I am SO SORRY!Pets become part of our f...Oh honey! I am SO SORRY!<BR/>Pets become part of our families and I can't imagine how hard this must be for you, but doing what you know is best for Kevin shows what kind of mom you are...an AWESOME one. Don't be so hard on yourself and give yourself time to grieve. I'm sure that Carly will be OK and will be united with a family that will love her very soon. Maybe you could ask your close friends and family to consider adopting her so you can still see her sometimes.<BR/>((((hugs)))<BR/><BR/>TerryTerryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10251319452790708684noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-8635981572409940592007-09-09T00:13:00.000-04:002007-09-09T00:13:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry. I know this was a painful decision t...I'm so sorry. I know this was a painful decision to make. I believe you certainly made the right choice - painful, but right.<BR/><BR/>Welcome to motherhood - painfully sacrificing and always putting the needs of our children first. We would do anything to keep our children from having even one moment of pain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-3900993119085187692007-09-09T00:12:00.000-04:002007-09-09T00:12:00.000-04:00No one who has a child could think you are horribl...No one who has a child could think you are horrible. You did what you felt was best for your child and the dog. If something awful had happened not only would your child be hurt but the dog would likely be put down. I know it was a horrible, awful decision - dog are part of the family. But sometimes you have to make tough decisions - being a grown up sucks sometimes. I'm sorry you had to do it but completely understand. <BR/><BR/>(I am 34 and still have a scar from a dog bite to the face as a child.)Michelle Smileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01423308673171062647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1768194102533639835.post-31539603006179531372007-09-08T23:51:00.000-04:002007-09-08T23:51:00.000-04:00Welcome Home, Kevin!!Don't feel bad...we as moms h...Welcome Home, Kevin!!<BR/><BR/>Don't feel bad...we as moms have to do what we feel is right for our children...you followed your head and heart...that can't be wrong!<BR/>NYKRISSYKristen and the Ganghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05544347272031374458noreply@blogger.com